Exactly What to Say™… to Your Family at Thanksgiving
- Kara Moll
- 51 minutes ago
- 2 min read
Ah, Thanksgiving… that magical time of year when families gather around the table to share gratitude, green bean casserole, and deeply held communication patterns that date back to 1987.
You can negotiate million-dollar deals, handle objections like a pro, and build rapport with strangers in under 10 seconds, but nothing tests your communication skills like explaining your career to Aunt Carol for the seventh year in a row.
Let’s face it: every Thanksgiving table is a live training on tone, timing, and tactical word choice. So, in the spirit of the holiday, here are a few Thanksgiving communication tips to help you survive and maybe even close the evening on a high note!
“That’s an interesting perspective…”
Translation: I will not debate politics over pie.
“Tell me more about that...”
The perfect way to redirect Uncle Joe’s conspiracy theories while pretending to refill your wine glass.
“Out of curiosity… what made you say that?”
You’re not seeking understanding, you’re actually buying time to plot your getaway.
“If I can, will you…”
“If I can pass the rolls, will you promise not to bring up the family group text again?” Winner, winner, turkey dinner!
Top Thanksgiving Communication Tips to Remember for Your Family at Thanksgiving
Tone trumps turkey.
Curiosity beats criticism.
Sometimes the best communication strategy is a well-timed “Mmm…” while chewing because after all, it's not polite to speak with food in your mouth!
This Thanksgiving, practice your listening skills, express genuine gratitude, and maybe - just maybe - turn that family dinner into your best test lab for influence yet.
Because whether it’s clients or cousins, the right words, said the right way, can change everything.
Your Next Step
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Come buzz with us! No pressure… just possibility… because Christmas is right around the corner!
And from my heart to yours: Happy Thanksgiving. 🍂
About Kara
Kara Moll empowers busy executives to become confident, effective communicators—unlocking their full potential in both their personal and professional lives. An Executive Coach with Keller Williams MAPS Coaching, Kara is one of Phil M. Jones’ Certified Guides and an Exactly What to Say® Coach. She combines these powerful communication frameworks with expertise in Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Energy Leadership Coaching to help clients achieve transformative results.
With over 20 years of experience in real estate, coaching, and training, she brings a wealth of knowledge and insight to every interaction. To take your communication skills to the next level, inquire about working with Kara here: Contact Kara Moll
