Navigating Holiday Conversations… Christmas Dinner Edition
- Kara Moll
- Dec 24, 2025
- 3 min read
Twas the night of the dinner, and all through the house, The tree lights were twinkling, no need for a mouse.
The dishes were clinking, the cinnamon warm, The rolls slightly overdone… a true holiday norm.
The family was gathered, all snug in their seats, While stories and side-eyes passed over the meats.
When out of the blue came a comment so bold, It tested each communication skill you’ve ever been told.
Navigating Holiday Conversations... Because nothing sharpens your timing, your presence, your grace, Like holiday conversations in your childhood place.
Where the folks who once watched you run ‘round in PJs, now quiz you on housing trends like it’s the old days.
So to keep things still merry, and your sanity intact, Here are a few “Exactly What to Say™” phrases, holiday-packed.
A sprinkle of language, a shimmer of cheer, to help you glide through the dinner and into a bright New Year.
1. When someone launches a topic you did not RSVP “yes” to
“I am not sure I have the best answer for that, but I would love to hear your take.”
Translation: You may speak. I will be preserving my holiday serenity like it’s Grandma’s china.
2. When a relative gifts you unsolicited feedback
“That is helpful context. I will think about that.”
Short. Neutral. More effective than noise-canceling headphones. Provides zero oxygen for drama.
3. When a family debate heats up faster than the oven at 425°
“I can see we have a lot of passion at this table.”
Suddenly everyone feels validated, no one feels attacked, and the room cools down faster than the green bean casserole.
4. When you need to redirect without sounding like the Grinch
“Before we get too deep into that… can I ask you something fun”
A cheerful conversational U-turn tied with a bright red bow.
5. When someone describes your job… incorrectly… for the fifth year in a row
“Here is a simpler way to think about what I do.”
A magical reframing phrase that saves you from a surprise 12 minute market update no one actually wants.
6. When your nervous system needs a moment but disappearing feels suspicious
“I am going to step away for a second so I can come back fully present.”
Healthy boundaries disguised as holiday wisdom. Bonus points if you return with peppermint bark.
7. When the moment is genuinely sweet and you want to anchor it
“I am really glad we are together today.”
Because influence is not only about redirecting the hard conversations.It is also about deepening the lovely ones.
Navigating Holiday Conversations at the Dinner Table
Christmas dinner is not a test. It’s a full scale playground for practicing presence, curiosity, tone, and choice… all while passing the potatoes.
And the beauty is this:
The same skills that help you gracefully navigate the holiday table are the ones that help you lead better conversations at work, at home, and everywhere your influence matters.
Wishing you warmth, connection, and clean communication this Christmas.
May your conversations be clearer than the gravy and lighter than the fruitcake.
Your Next Step
If you’re ready to take these skills from the holiday table to the conference table, come practice inside Kaleidoscope Mindhive.
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About Kara
Kara Moll empowers busy executives to become confident, effective communicators—unlocking their full potential in both their personal and professional lives. An Executive Coach with Keller Williams MAPS Coaching, Kara is one of Phil M. Jones’ Certified Guides and an Exactly What to Say® Coach. She combines these powerful communication frameworks with expertise in Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Energy Leadership Coaching to help clients achieve transformative results.
With over 20 years of experience in real estate, coaching, and training, she brings a wealth of knowledge and insight to every interaction. To take your communication skills to the next level, inquire about working with Kara here: Contact Kara Moll
